Strategies employed to maintain control and inflict emotional distress during and after the termination of a relationship are often characteristic of individuals with narcissistic traits. These manipulative behaviors can include gaslighting, triangulation (involving a third party), and smear campaigns designed to damage the reputation of the former partner. An example includes the constant barrage of mixed signals, alternating between affection and rejection, leaving the other party in a state of confusion and dependency.
The significance of understanding such behavior lies in its potential to inflict long-term psychological harm on the individual subjected to it. Recognizing the patterns allows for the implementation of strategies for self-protection and emotional recovery. Historically, these controlling mechanisms have been present in relationships, but a greater awareness of personality disorders facilitates identification and coping mechanisms.
